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It’s a Slow Fade

at Westside, we’re currently in a series about covenants. last sunday was the topic of purity. a powerful message for many to hear. the video a little further down was sung in the middle of the service and spoke volumes to me personally.

We are not supposed to do indecent things with our bodies. We are to use them for the Lord who is in charge of our bodies . . . Don’t you know that your bodies are part of the body of Christ? Don’t be immoral in matters of sex. That is a sin against your own body in a way that no other sin is. You surely know that your body is a temple where the Holy Spirit lives. The Spirit is in you and is a gift from God. You are no longer your own. God paid a great price for you. So use your body to honor God. 1 Corinthians 6:13, 18-20 (CEV)

most of you know my past and my battles with living a life of purity. whether it be lust, porn or an affair… i believe purity is a battle for everyone. and it doesn’t go from nonexistent to manageable to out of control overnight.

here’s the song i mentioned just a moment ago. take a listen.

i know these matters are difficult to talk about and if you are in it — it is easy to just turn away now. but i want to know, where are you?

are you in too deep? barely in? or somewhere in between?

1. Understand the seriousness of sexual sin.
2. Evaluate where you are vulnerable to sexual sin.

Possible points of vulnerability:
• Who you hang with.
• What you take into your mind.
• Lack of accountability in your relationships.
• Lack of intimacy.

3. Confess where you have messed up.
4. Commit to sexual purity from this day forward.

God is more concerned about where you are headed than where you have been. We serve the God of second chances. Honor God in your sexual purity and He will honor you.

Walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing to him, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God. May you be strengthened with all power, according to his glorious might . . . Colossians 1:10–11 (ESV)

pray for this…

i begin leading this new group on tuesday, february 26 at 6:30pm at the wfc lenexa campus. i have 5 ladies signed up this time around…. and believe it or not, that’s 500% better than the last time we tried.

i am really encouraged by the strength and boldness of these women for stepping out. please pray for them as they will no doubt be nervous this week in anticipation of the first class. pray for me as i fast and prepare for leading these women that God’s entrusting me with. thank you Westside for being bold and opening your doors as a safe place for this group and thank you Lord for letting me do this. may these women find healing and transformation through You.

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The Creep in the Mirror

for all of you seekers of truth and authenticity, check out this blog i found yesterday. it will wow you. when reading, be sure to start at the beginning as this man explicitly chronicles his struggle with and victory over sexual addiction.

The Creep in the Mirror

pray for group orientation

tonight is orientation for the Victory Over Sexual Sin: Women’s Edition. a new lifeline support group at the church in which i will be facilitating and leading. i ask for your prayers right now. i do not have any registrations yet, but orientation will go on as planned, in hopes that i have some walk-ups. i know the topic is incredibly sensitive and takes a lot of courage to face. i am praying for that very courage for the women who need a group like this. i’ve been where they are and i just hope that the promotion over the last 3 weeks has at least opened some eyes and brought a sense of freedom to women who thought they were alone. i don’t feel as though my call to start this group was for no reason. i definitely feel the Lord is up to something. and i’m trusting Him with that.

i ask that you unite in prayer with me today.

my prayer right now is that even if only 1 woman shows up tonight, it will be a sweet time of sharing and honesty. and the beginning of a healing transformation for that woman. that the words i speak would be completely God-led. this very well may be a lonely battle i am about to walk into and i ask for your prayers of protection over myself and over the women who may be involved.

whew… here we go… thank you!

Victory Over Sexual Sin: Women’s Edition
Beginning Thursday, October 4 at 6:30pm
Community Room, Lenexa Campus
Westside Family Church

This 21-week LifeLine support group for women tackles sexual sin and sexual addiction as it relates to pornagraphy and online behaviors. Material cost $22. For more info or to register contact Crystal by email or 913 890 4229.

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Victory Over Sexual Sin: Women’s Edition

(this isn’t breaking my blogging fast since it’s about the ministry i am fasting for… haha)

Victory Over Sexual Sin: Women’s Edition
Beginning Thursday, October 4 at 6:30pm
Community Room, Lenexa Campus
Westside Family Church

This 21-week LifeLine support group for women tackles sexual sin and sexual addiction as it relates to pornagraphy and online behaviors. Material cost $22. For more info or to register contact Crystal by email or 913 890 4229.

Other WFC LifeLines

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